When starting a session with someone I’ve not met before, I’ll usually engage in some light banter with the model. I’ll have us sit down in front of the studio and ask about her. Who she is, what she’s about…. I do this for a few reasons. First, let her get used to the environment, Second, I watch the muscles in her face. After you’ve shot quite a few people, you’ll notice those very slight changes in the face. When we first meet, there’s typically some tightness in her facial muscles and as we talk - I’ll watch for her face to relax - that’s the person I want to photograph. Not the ‘tense’ person who just walked into the studio. Someone with whom I’ve earned some trust and confidence. I’ll also pick up some queues from her what and how she responds to - to bring out emotion in her eyes and face. Keep in mind the photographer and model are complete strangers. He’s in a position of implied trust but yet still needs to earn that trust.
Listen. Be interested, not interesting. I’ll always ask her to bring a girlfriend along. Someone who can help out and adjust hair, fix clothes. As a guy, I’m at a disadvantage. I never touch a model. Again, we’re total strangers. If we’ve shot several times and know each other well, sometimes, with permission - I may. But the never rule is one I take seriously. Uncompromising integrity and constant respect for the individual. Period.
Then we’ll start the session with her in studio but I’ll say something insane or crazy that she will laugh to. Forgetting she’s in front of me, a camera and lighting gear. You know - a regular nice person. And grab a shot like this one. A great way to start out.
Next - always give praise and comment. Nothing is worse than a photographer who takes shot after shot without any kind of information for the model to hear or make adjustments to. If she’s in a bad/poor pose, build it up a shot at a time to the pose that works in a positive way. Always be positive in front of the model. You’re the leader. Be one.
Here’s that first grab shot after saying something stupid (based on info gathered during our chat). It really sets the day off right!!
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Yes…. the poor sessions were mostly in the early learning years (actually you never stop learning). With much less experience on my part that taught me to improve what I was doing. I found I could never blame the model. It was always me that needed improvement. With improvement comes confidence in front of a model. She can see your confidence and responds in kind. I needed to self criticize what I was doing during sessions. What I needed to improve. Directing models. I read through fashion magazines, posing guides. After sessions I try to think about what went well and what I could do to improve. My repeat clients - I can ask them for feedback too.
Communicate, communicate, communicate. I don't think anyone has ever complained a photographer of over-communicating. But do so effectively. Place yourself in the models shoes if you will. What does she expect to hear. What type of direction. How to explain what you need from her, Do it with patience and confidence. Small changes not major shifts in poses.
As for relaxing - There’s nothing wrong with stopping her mid session and say “Im seeing that tension in your face”. (You’ve already discussed tension and facial muscles and you’ll stop her - in your chat session so she already knows about this). Maybe ask her to think about a shower and just feel the warm water rinsing away the tension. That works well. You’ll instantly see her face come back to beauty from the tension.
A challenging session I had - I discovered was one young lady had lost her brother she loved so much to suicide the past year. Saying the wrong thing triggered her during that chat. I can’t tell you how important a pre-session chat is. I had to take extra care to get the best out of that session. She did great. Played the right music and did my best to talk a lot during the session and what we would be doing and focused her on the task at hand.
This is really good advice, and this is stuff I need to improve upon with my people shots. You have excellent gear and you know how to use it, but this information is so important.Starting with full-length (the goofy grab shot posted just above) and half body shots - After a clothing change, I moved closer for headshots. Full length shots first was less personal from the beginning versus headshots up close. The expression in her face was so beautiful in this headshot.
Easy, relaxed, calm beauty. Pure love…. This is your goal as a photographer. She is not thinking about me or the camera or studio, She’s way past that…Reposted here as an example:
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Thank you for sharing your invaluable information!

