When starting a session with someone I’ve not met before, I’ll usually engage in some light banter with the model. I’ll have us sit down in front of the studio and ask about her. Who she is, what she’s about…. I do this for a few reasons. First, let her get used to the environment, Second, I watch the muscles in her face. After you’ve shot quite a few people, you’ll notice those very slight changes in the face. When we first meet, there’s typically some tightness in her facial muscles and as we talk - I’ll watch for her face to relax - that’s the person I want to photograph. Not the ‘tense’ person who just walked into the studio. Someone with whom I’ve earned some trust and confidence. I’ll also pick up some queues from her what and how she responds to - to bring out emotion in her eyes and face. Keep in mind the photographer and model are complete strangers. He’s in a position of implied trust but yet still needs to earn that trust.
Listen. Be interested, not interesting. I’ll always ask her to bring a girlfriend along. Someone who can help out and adjust hair, fix clothes. As a guy, I’m at a disadvantage. I never touch a model. Again, we’re total strangers. If we’ve shot several times and know each other well, sometimes, with permission - I may. But the never rule is one I take seriously. Uncompromising integrity and constant respect for the individual. Period.
Then we’ll start the session with her in studio but I’ll say something insane or crazy that she will laugh to. Forgetting she’s in front of me, a camera and lighting gear. You know - a regular nice person. And grab a shot like this one. A great way to start out.
Next - always give praise and comment. Nothing is worse than a photographer who takes shot after shot without any kind of information for the model to hear or make adjustments to. If she’s in a bad/poor pose, build it up a shot at a time to the pose that works in a positive way. Always be positive in front of the model. You’re the leader. Be one.
Here’s that first grab shot after saying something stupid (based on info gathered during our chat). It really sets the day off right!!
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